Whoopi Goldberg Q&A: ‘Nobody Wanted Me But The Gay Community’

In a recent interview with Kathy Griffin, Eddie Murphy, and Joan Rivers, actress-comedian Whoopi Goldberg discussed her commitment to fighting for gay rights and addressed the longstanding rumors about her own sexuality. The interview took place while filming the documentary “Mabley Moms Presents Goldberg Whoopi,” which features a roster of big comedy shots including Bill Cosby. During the interview, Goldberg, who is known for her edgy humor and activist attitude, talked about how being a lesbian had no effect on her role on Moms. She also mentioned that Mabley, who is known as the “world’s funniest woman,” is the first female comedian to be featured at the Apollo. Goldberg, a trailblazer and civil rights activist, is one of the earliest comedy heroes of the 20th century, which explains why she is often referred to as “Grandma.” When asked about her thoughts on being a lesbian, Goldberg bluntly stated that it doesn’t bother her and she doesn’t understand why people make a fuss about it. In fact, she wrote a column just to express her indifference towards the topic. Ever since her days performing at lesbian comedy clubs in San Francisco in the ’70s, Goldberg has been an enigma when it comes to her sexuality. Some people may ask her about it, but she doesn’t care and it has never affected her career.

Humor surpasses all. It was irrelevant – regardless of whether you were male or female – your sexual orientation or identity, if you lacked a sense of humor, you wouldn’t succeed. No one was pondering over these factors. In the 1930s, being homosexual could have potentially hindered one’s career, and in the 1920s, individuals like lesbian black mothers must have faced challenges. How do you think they managed to overcome them?

At the time, it seemed stupid to me what people’s issues were. If you’re not doing your job, not anybody is gonna bitch at you, but they will weigh a lot more than me because they’re gay. Nobody’s business was it: I grew up in a world where nobody cared about you or who you wanted to be with, and I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t care about all that stuff. You see stupid situations or bad situations. People just didn’t understand. “Uh, that’s what people thought. It was ridiculous like, what’s that?” I didn’t want to assume that just because someone was an ally, they automatically wanted to come out of the closet. At that time, when identifying as a part of the LGBT community was such a big risk, you were a much bigger ally to the community than someone who identified early on.

I want to get off stage. I have to stand up. I don’t want to hear someone messing with me, and I know how this saying goes. I don’t want people messing with me to defend themselves. I felt that these people were my friends and my people because there was nothing anyone could do to me. Yet, I don’t know. As an evolving nature of being identified as an ally, and then taking on the role you played in the movement, someone with a long history as an ally.

Do they think the same thing about people who don’t think they’re gay? What difference does it make? I’ll never understand it.

If you’re still talking about my sexuality, I’ll probably be gone because I want to be with amazing people who don’t care. Considering how people want to characterize your life, you should probably make a documentary about your day-to-day experiences. Have you ever wondered how long people have been watching you swing, Moms Mabley?

If that’s your main worry, then you’re focusing on the wrong issue. That’s my response to anyone who frets about it. It would actually be fortunate if someone assumed you were homosexual! It’s as if, “No way, I won’t utter a word. Someone might perceive me as (gay).” However, there was a period when individuals had similar concerns, but don’t you believe that celebrities also contribute to the LGBTQ+ rights movement simply by embracing their authentic selves?

Men wanted them. They had love from their brothers. These guys didn’t want to be with these girls. You learned later what it meant. There were men who seemed like your “uncle” but you would never call them that because they had girlfriends. We were all poor. Because nobody had any money, I mean, all kinds of folks lived in that neighborhood in Chelsea where I grew up. In my life, I’ve always had gay people but, well, that’s not the point. What motivates you to become an ally? What motivates you to become an ally? In March 1987, you pushed a man with AIDS in a wheelchair on Washington. But your gay advocacy dates back even further. In 2010, you joined Cyndi Lauper in the launch of the Damn Campaign to raise awareness of LGBT discrimination. In 2008, you held up a sign that said “Equal Rights – For My Friends” during a protest against Prop 8.

And Moms, despite talking about young men in her act, had a thing for the ladies. Yeah, she worked a great game.

I honestly claim to be quite glad that they make assumptions, but then, if you’ve heard something or seen something, like a movie they’ve seen or a movie you’ve seen, they assume they know because of that. One thing I always forget is what people think about me. “The Color Purple” is a play I have done and I have been gay. OK! If you wanna say what you think, well, say it. “We say, think what you wanna think.” I don’t know what to say to people because I don’t know what they know now, but I wonder about many things people can assume because it’s not always conventional. It can be a bit difficult because I’m always trying to get the gig, but her life, she’s crazy about living it in her own terms. That’s all I know.

I have always claimed to be part of the gay community, but nobody wanted me. Black people didn’t want me either. I wanted nobody, and I was trying to claim that I was not interested in anyone. Do you know? Yes, you claim to be trying as well, don’t you? Yes, you were happy to claim that we were together.

Do you really mean that? I mean, do you really mean that? But honestly, I’m not interested. (Laughs) There are a few people who think the same way, but not everyone. Time! I have never seen a pretty woman like you before, it’s clear to me. Do you prefer to leave your sexuality ambiguous? Please, open the door that you have been hiding in for years. When Barbara Walters made a comment about you coming out of the closet on “The View” in 2009, for example, you made some vague remarks about your sexuality. Maybe that’s why people have assumed that you’re straight, but it could be anything.

Initially, individuals witnessed “The Color Purple” because I accomplished that. I frequently neglect “Boys on the Side” but I adore that film. Expressing gratitude. That’s the alternate one! Individuals hastily make assumptions when you portray a homosexual character in “Boys on the Side”. It signifies.

Is there a lesbian actually playing or a nun singing? It’s always a challenge for you to find a sweet spot in a piece because you have always loved Mary-Louise Parker, who played Robin on “The Boys in the Band.” “My sweet spot” should be the relationship that everybody thinks it should be – a relationship that everybody can have some religious connection to. The “Sister Act” really was a sweet spot for the religion.

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We’ll simply go along with what you believe I stated. I adore you already.

What happened to your religious attire from “Sister Act”? I believe I sent it to France. Everyone requires something for Halloween.

There is trouble deep within us that we may not recognize. We are all people, so why do we divide ourselves based on race, sexual orientation, and other factors? We are all part of the same community, and it is important to advocate for the rights of the LGBTQ+ community. Thank you, Whoopi, for chatting and for being an ally.